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Love Type Test — 6 Styles of Love
A free Love Type Test. Answer 30 questions to find which of six love types leads in you — Spark, Steady, Care, Free, Mind or Play.
Loves the rush — chemistry, butterflies and grand feelings come first.
Loves by staying — trust, consistency and being there tomorrow too.
Loves by looking after — noticing needs and quietly meeting them.
Question 1 of 30
Picking up where you left off.
I want a relationship that makes my heart race, not just one that works on paper.
The six love types
- SP Spark
- The Spark Chaser Loves the rush — chemistry, butterflies and grand feelings come first.
- ST Steady
- The Steady Flame Loves by staying — trust, consistency and being there tomorrow too.
- CA Care
- The Caretaker Loves by looking after — noticing needs and quietly meeting them.
- FR Free
- The Free Spirit Loves with the door open — closeness that never cages either of you.
- MI Mind
- The Soul Talker Loves through talk — long conversations are the real intimacy.
- PL Play
- The Playmate Loves by playing — jokes, adventures and being partners in fun.
About the Love Type Test
Everyone loves in a pattern, and most of us have never seen our own from the outside. One person needs the racing heart or it doesn't count; another counts love in years of showing up; a third says it best by cooking dinner when you're tired. None of these people are loving wrong — but when two patterns share one relationship without knowing it, each keeps giving what the other doesn't quite need.
This Love Type Test reads your pattern through 30 questions about what you notice, miss and reach for in romance. Your answers score six love types — Spark, Steady, Care, Free, Mind and Play — and the strongest becomes your result: what you are like to date, what feeds you, what quietly drains you, and where your kind of love grows. Below it, your top three appear in order, because real people are chords, not single notes.
It takes about six minutes and asks for nothing but honesty — answer from the relationships you have actually had, not the montage version. And a gentle disclaimer: this is a mirror for fun and self-reflection, not a psychological assessment, and no type is better at love than another. They just keep different promises.
How it works
- Answer 30 quick statements about how you behave when you like someone — what excites you, what reassures you, what wears you out. About six minutes.
- Draw on relationships you have actually lived, including the ones that ended. Your history is better data than your ideals.
- Each question feeds one of the six love types — five questions to a type, and some are scored in reverse. When you finish, the strongest one opens as your result.
- Read your top three in order below the main result. The second type often explains the exceptions the first type can't.
- If you're seeing someone, trade results. The interesting conversation is rarely the matching types — it's where your lists differ.
This test is for fun and self-reflection. It is not a psychological assessment, and no type is better than another.
Frequently asked questions
What is a love style?
A love style describes how a person tends to love rather than whom they love — chasing intensity, settling into steadiness, showing care by doing things, keeping independence intact, talking their way close, or keeping it light. The six styles here are our own, written for this test, and most people carry two at once.
Which love type is the best partner?
There is no ranking, only fit and effort. A Spark type brings weather, a Steady type brings climate; Care feeds people, Free gives them air, Mind goes deep, Play keeps it light. Every one of the six delights someone and exhausts someone else. What predicts a good relationship isn't holding a certain type — it's knowing your own pattern well enough to say it out loud.
My partner got a completely different type. Are we doomed?
No — different types are the normal case, not a warning sign. A Spark with a Steady, a Care with a Free: these pairs work everywhere, once each side learns what the other's type treats as love. Trouble usually comes not from the difference itself but from translating a partner's pattern as indifference. Two result pages side by side make a surprisingly good translation guide.
Can my love type change over time?
It drifts, and that is healthy. People often lead with Spark early on, grow a Steady or Care streak inside a long relationship, and rediscover Free after a draining one. The test reads how you love now, from the answers you gave today. If a breakup or a new relationship has reshuffled you, retake it — the change itself is worth seeing.
Is the Love Type Test based on psychology? Is it John Lee’s love styles scale?
No, it is not that scale, and the two are worth keeping apart. John Lee described six love styles in 1973 under Greek names — Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania and Agape — and academic questionnaires exist that measure them. This is none of those: it is written for fun and self-reflection, not as a scientific instrument. The six types are this site's own framework, every question is original, and nothing here diagnoses you or predicts a relationship's future. Think of it as a well-organized conversation starter about how you love — the kind that is surprisingly hard to start without a page like this.
Is the Love Type Test free, and can my partner see the result?
Free, with no account and no email, and only if you show them. The thirty answers are scored on your device and vanish with the tab, so nothing about how you love ends up anywhere you did not put it yourself. Comparing two results side by side works well — but that has to be a choice, not a leak.
How long does the Love Type Test take?
Six minutes or so for the thirty. Answer for how you actually behave rather than how you would like to, since the whole use of the result is having language for a pattern you have been living without naming.